Happy St. Patrick’s Day!

I love lucky charms! It is sugary sweet, yet, when you get down to it, no true substance. They taste good, but the goodness in your life isn’t derived from them. They give you a quick boost of sweetness, but if you don’t have sweetness in your life, that feeling will quickly dissipate. I rarely eat them, but smile when I see that leprechaun smiling and reminding me just how lucky I am.

Do you have a lucky charm? How about a favorite coin you keep in your pocket? Or perhaps a rabbit’s foot, or do you wear lucky underwear?

Do you consider yourself a lucky person? Or have you caught yourself saying “I wouldn’t have any luck if it weren’t for bad luck”? When you go about your day, listen to what you say to yourself. Do you say “I’m excited as this is going to be amazing?” Or do you catch yourself saying “here we go again.”

Within you at this very minute is where you luck lives; your thoughts. When you honor your highest self of love, joy, brilliance, creativity, and peace, ‘luck’ begins to flow. You find yourself in the right place to meet the right person, hear the right words, taste the right food, and live in joy. When you live your highest self, you are excited and joyful as others live their dreams and you share in the excitement of their ‘luck’.

Affirmation: I create my luck by knowing life is full of amazing possibilities.

(S)he Said:

“Luck is what happens when preparations meets opportunity” ~Seneca

“Luck is believing you’re lucky” ~Tennessee Williams

“The day you decide to do it is your lucky day” ~Japanese Proverb

“Each misfortune you encounter will carry in it the seed of tomorrow’s good luck.” ~Og Mandino

Soulful Links:

Lucky ~ Jason Mraz and Colbie Caillat

Wishing I Was Lucky ~ Wet, Wet, Wet

With a Little Bit of Luck ~ My Fair Lady

For the next week I invite you allow your luck to flourish by:

Focusing on the goodness in your life and I mean every situation. Seek the good out of a contrasting experience and celebrate the good in an amazing experience.

Appreciating the fact that you always have a choice how to react to any situation in your life as lucky or unlucky – you choose.

Loving yourself through each experience in your week.

Forgiving yourself for having fear based reactions as contrasting experiences simply help lead you to what you do want. The less you beat yourself up on the past (which could be five minutes ago) the more ‘luck’ will come to you.

Mostly, my wish for you is a week filled with the absolute knowledge that you are an amazing piece of a worldwide jigsaw puzzle of humanity that is coming together. And when you see yourself fitting into this worldwide puzzle, you will be your lucky charm.

Until next week, here is to a heaping full bowl of your lucky charm – YOU!

Keep living big, loving big, and laughing along the journey.
~ Carol

Looking for a way to stay focused on Living Life Fulfilled? Make sure to surround yourself with people who lift you up, inspire you, support you, and simply love to laugh and have fun.

Focused Family

Teaching Your Children Law Of Attraction.

Welcome to Focused Family, our monthly newsletter on teaching the law of attraction to children.  We’re very happy and excited that you’re here. Each month we’ll share a parenting tip, a game to play, and a powerful child manifestation story to keep you inspired and focused on created the best possible family.

I’m so happy and grateful to share this work with you.  Until next month… dream big and keep focusing on what you’re wanting.

 Life is good, Steffani

Quote:

“Your children will see what you’re all about by what you live rather than what you say.” ~ Dr. Wayne Dyer

Parent tip of the month:  Energy, Attention and Focus! 

What are you including in your vibrational space? Do you know? Well what are you putting your energy, attention and focus on? Whatever the answer….that’s in your vibrational space. Are you day dreaming about a vacation? That’s in your vibrational bubble. Are you talking about a future experience or past experience? That’s in your vibrational bubble. Are you worrying about something? That’s in your vibrational bubble. Are you focusing on the bad weather, a sick coworker, a bad customer service experience? That’s also in there. Think for a minute about how often you worry about your kids. Do you want to include that in your vibrational bubble? We all know that we can’t attract or vibrate for someone else. So what does worrying do?  Does it affect them? No. But it does effect our vibration. And it effects what we’re attracting for everyone around us. It effects what we’re manifesting. So give some thought to what you’re putting your energy, attention and focus on. What are you talking about, thinking about, looking at, dreading? Change the negatives to positives and you’ll attract more of what you’re wanting. When conversations come up that are not welcome in your vibrational bubble. Change them. When you start thinking about things that are not welcome in your vibrational bubble CANCEL them. And move on to bigger and better thoughts and conversations. Only you control your vibration. Only you control what you’re attracting. You are a deliberate attractor. You can consciously create the life of your dreams by putting your energy, attention and focus on that dream life. Lead by example and show your kids that you’re putting your energy, attention and focus on all things good. They’ll be encouraged to do the same.

Monthly game:  Dinner Affirmations

When I am asked to create powerful affirmations I do. When I’m not asked I don’t. Kids are the same. If we ask them to participate in something, and keep it consistent, they’ll oblige. Sometimes right away, sometimes eventually. So what are you asking of your kids? What kind of rituals and traditions have you created? Are they positive and fun? Do they align with LOA? Here’s an idea you can add. If you spend a few nights a week having dinner with your kids, no matter what their age, ask them to create a new powerful affirmation each night. Tell them one of your latest and greatest powerful affirmations.  Don’t be afraid to share it. Then ask them to create one. It could be something pertaining to their school work. “I’m a straight A student.” “I work hard on every one of my history exams.”  Or something more personal that might be pertinent in their life. “I make friends easily.” “I’m very popular in a positive and helpful way.” You might start by asking your kids: “What are you working on in your life right now?” Or “what do you want to improve in your life right now?”  Then help them create an affirmation around that. It can become your new dinner routine. When you’re setting the table you can ask, “Are you thinking about your latest and greatest affirmation?” “Have you been saying your last affirmation often?” “Do you have something in your life you want to work on tonight?”  This can start as young as kids can talk. And it can last until they’re adults and beyond. J The basic tip for a good affirmation is, keep it positive, keep it present and keep it in the first person. So, I have or I am is better then I want or I will have.  I also like to ask one question of my affirmations. And that is, is it true?  Do I really feel like that can happen? If my affirmation feels like a load of bull, then it’s not going to get me anywhere. If there’s at least a hint of truth to it then it will work for me.  For instance, I have never considered myself a good cook. So if I had a new affirmation that said “I’m an excellent cook” That wouldn’t work for me. My subconscious would say “BS!” Instead I might set a new affirmation of “I enjoy cooking healthy meals”. Or “I cook healthy meals that taste great”. Both of those are true and believable to me. So that’s an easy leap. And it will get me where I’m wanting to be, which is to be a good cook. Help your kids to develop a new affirmation every night you share dinner together. They’ll enjoy it and get better and better at creating powerful affirmations in their lives. And with all those powerful affirmations floating around, ANYTHING’S POSSIBLE.

The latest and greatest Kids Manifestation Story:

My son Jack is 18 months old.  And he is a POWERFUL manifestor. We started giving him some Pedialyte (baby Gatorade) when he was young to keep him hydrated. And he LOVED it. He has since always had a bit of Pedialyte in his water. He doesn’t drink straight water very well because of it. Our doctor said it was no problem but if we wanted to stop the Pedialyte we should just stop it, cold turkey. So we decided to make a change. We were traveling to Mexico for a week long vacation. And we started just giving him Milk and purified water. He didn’t seem to protest very much.  But you could tell that when he drank his water he would look twice at it, wondering where the flavor was. We were only there a few days when Jack got a little infermo (sick). We took him to the doctor and although he was given a clean bill of health we walked out with a prescription for….yep, you guessed it, Pedialyte. Just a few days without his beloved Pedialyte and he suddenly has a doctor prescribed order for it. What a powerful little man! I can’t wait to see what he asks for next.

Do you have any kid’s manifestation stories you’d like to share.  E-mail me at steffani@postive-focus.com  I’d love to hear about your powerful kids.

I’m so happy and grateful to share this work with you.  Until next month… dream big and keep focusing on what you’re wanting.

Life is good,

Steffani

Steffani Fort LeFevour is an actress, a fitness specialist and an expert in the law of attraction and living your best life. She has been teaching the law of attraction to kids and adults for over 8 years and applying it in her own life for over 20 years. Her passion is to help others to focus on their ultimate lives and consciously create the life of their dreams.

 She is a board member at Positive Focus, a 501c3 Non-Profit dedicated to empowering people to live life fulfilled through the provision of Service-Charity, Mind-Body-Spirit, and Fun-Social events, workshops, resources and services.

Welcome to Choice Airlines where we honor the choices you make on living your life. We offer four different flight options: Grounded, Turbulence, Possibilities, and Joy. Choose your flight for today and know that you can upgrade at anytime.
 
Hi, I’m Captain Compassion and I will be your pilot today on aircraft Grounded. Please fasten your seat belts to feel secure. Rather than showing a movie, we’ll be listening to some relaxing music to help calm you. We will taxi around the airport but at no time will our wheels leave the ground. This flight is simply to prepare you to feel secure and know it is okay to be afraid. When you allow yourself to feel these feelings rather than degrading yourself because of them, you will move through them quicker. When you start feeling safe and secure and trust that you will always be supported on Grounded, I will share some information with you about our two other flights, Turbulence and Possibilities. And perhaps at the end of our flight, I’ll tell you about a dream aircraft we call Joy. Know that you are not alone as you see other passengers squeezing their arm rests. Look down the aisle into the cockpit and see compassion is right here to support you. Look out the window and see if you can see Turbulence. If you can’t yet, that is okay as you are right where you need to be for now.
 
Hi, I am Captain Hope and this is Captain Fun and we will be your pilots today on aircraft Turbulence. Please fasten your seat belts as the weather is forecasted to be stormy. The in-flight movie we’ll be showing is “Twister” as it demonstrates how inner turmoil becomes your outer reality in a fun and entertaining way. Although our take-off might be rough and we will barely clear the trees, I promise you, we will clear them. We might go through some strong air pockets, but I promise you as the flight continues you will build confidence that you made it through the last bank of clouds for some calm skies and you will make it through this one too. Eventually, Captain Fun will have you laughing through the air pockets as the aircraft suddenly drops and then settles into a smooth flight pattern. You started this flight wondering if you should have stayed on Grounded, yet as time passes, you are excited about the possibilities that lie ahead.
 
Hi, I’m Captain Peace and I will be your pilot today on aircraft Possibilities. Our flight today is interactive as all of you will choose how high we fly and the weather conditions we will face. When you take the controls of your life and realize that contrasting experiences are there to grow from and remind you of what you do want out of life, amazing possibilities open up to you. Our in-flight movie is “You Can Heal Your Life” as it walks you through a better feeling place to thrive and fly high. Look below you and see how you made it through turbulence. Look within you and find peace. Look above you and see joy.
 
Hi, I’m Captain Love and I will be your pilot today on aircraft Joy. Joy is first class treatment all the way as you’re loving life to its fullest. We will be flying up to 65,000 feet off the ground with no particular destination as we see all aspects of life joyful. The in-flight movie we’ll be showing is “Heaven Can Wait” as your heaven is here NOW. We will go through some turbulence and be grounded to refuel, but all is well, as you simply know that joy lies within the journey of life. Look below you and see possibilities. Look within you and see love. Look above and see the vastness of living your life fulfilled.

 Affirmation:  I continue to fly high knowing I am loved and loving.

 (S)he Said:

“He who would learn to fly one day must first learn to stand and walk and run and climb and dance; one cannot fly into flying.”
~ Friedrich Nietzsche

 ”Aerodynamically, the bumble bee shouldn’t be able to fly, but the bumble bee doesn’t know it so it goes on flying anyway.”
 ~ Mary Kay Ash

 ”You cannot prevent the birds of sorrow from flying over your head, but you can prevent them from building nests in your hair.” ~ Chinese Proverb
 ”How blessings brighten as they take their flight.” ~ Edward Young

 Soulful Links:

Fly Me to the Moon ~ Frank Sinatra

Fly Away ~ Lenny Kravitz

Fly ~ Sugar Ray

For the next week I invite you to fly first class by:
 
Reaching for a better feeling thought however you currently feel.
 
Loving yourself regardless of how you currently feel.
 
Appreciating your yesterday, being at peace with your today, and getting excited about your tomorrow.
 
Mostly, my wish for you is to find acceptance and fun in the bumps in life and to honor yourself as you are a unique person who is love, kindness, compassion, and lots of fun!
 
Until next time, thank you for flying with Choice Airlines and we look forward to you joining us again.

Keep living big, loving big, and laughing along the journey.
~Carol